Poems about The Voice for Others

When you work on yourself, you are immediately being there for someone else. Your engagement, journey in reclaiming your self, your overcoming trauma, is a work that is truly the “proverbial pebble in the pond” rippling out and aligning with the work of others round the planet being the voice for someone who is no longer alive to write their poem… the person(s) who helped you reclaim your voice… justice is… global voices… social transformation…

Father To A Son

To the Son in Me

I was once like you
Shiny, happy and new
The world in front of me
Places to visit, things to do

Don’t rush to get there
Your day will come
This life is happiness, freedom and fun
Enjoy your childhood, you only get one

Run in the fields, swim in the pool
Make many friends, do well in school
Stay out of danger, be wise and shrewd
Show kindness to others, never be rude

And if darkness comes, be brave and strong
Don’t be fooled by his words it’s part of the charm
To lure you in to his lion’s den
Where all alone the harm will begin

It will hide behind a mask
Like an actor on stage
Singing words of promises, pleasure, and praise
But stare into its eyes and you will see
Emptiness and rage, a life of disgrace

When in need
Know that I am here
Do not be ashamed or embarrassed
Do not have any fear

I will not pass judgment
No aim to punish or to scold
Instead to listen
To guide and to hold

I am your father
This is my job
Your life is my life
And this, I will never allow anyone to rob

For in you I see me
Within me there is you
Inseparable, forever one
Like father and son

Author Statement

When I was writing this, I was reminded of how I felt after my experience. Feeling alone, embarrassed and ashamed, afraid of what my father would say. In writing this poem, this is what I wish I would have heard him say as I needed him to understand that it was not my fault.

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By J.Roussos
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September 4, 2025

The burst

The burst

Inside the bubble was anger, fear, shame and self loathing swimming and swirling
It encapsulated my head like a heavy helmut, never unfurling

Carrying it daily weighed a lot!!!
Surely others saw it, avoided me 'weirdo' they thought
I avoided them back, often staying in bed or
Head hung low as I walked, couldn't see the path directly ahead

I kept my distance in public, because of the bubble
No need to make eye contact, explain
or cause trouble

It made sleeping difficult with a barrier between my head,
And soft pillows of rest and comfort in bed
Nightmares entered the bubble churned with no escape
Waking up unsettled with no rest, no break

My voice was muted daily by the bubbles confines
I might have to yell so others hear me,
or repeat things two or three times

Inside me, the young girl pleaded for help again and again
This weight is too much for me, why can't you see this pain?

But I can't get it off, so I'll just cry and cry
Worrying alot about where the fault lies.

Wait somebody listened and earnestly cared!
Come in, have a tea, sit down don't be scared
They said there's a journey, a path towards healing
We'll help, we'll listen, let us know how your feeling

There's courage, resilience, forgiveness and hope
It's not really easy but there's tools to cope
And others who's feelings may mirror your own
The bubble had burst, I'm no longer alone!

Author Statement

I discovered the Gatehouse mid life. Prior to that time, I was working through many emotional and personal self worth issues But not very successfully. My person support system was minimal.

This poem is in practice of hope and gratitude 🙏

I felt and saw parts my journey. Through writing ✍️ this poem.

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By Claire
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September 4, 2025

It Ends with You and Begins with Me

Can’t you see, I’m not OK?
Can’t you tell them to go away?
Your own sons.
What irony in your own ones.

My world is crumbling
And I am fumbling
…Fumbling,
…Fumbling.

Rotting on the inside, and made to abide,
By them - by you,
Without a clue.

Of the damage being afflicted
As if they are addicted,
To the pain itself, hanging on the shelf.

Terror. Control. Manipulation.
They try to tell me: of my own creation…

Why are you unable to see the damage they are doing to me?

I wish I could tell you. I wish that I knew.
How you would react - much empathy lacked,
To handle this as the adult in the room

Not the one waiting - waiting - waiting,

To consume
Loom
Presume,

That nothing could possibly be all that bad -
Even though everyone around you was painfully sad.

Yet, is it you: Mother, that I should look to to rescue - Me -
- From them -
- In which you stem?

As they wait to do more damage
Leaving me in a place to mismanage.
Reeling, dealing, feeling.

What they took was not theirs to take
Only to forsake
Any voice - or choice -
That I might have had
Instead, thinking that I was bad?!

Who was most equipped to step in?
To let them admit their sin
Of the secrets untold, by those who were old
Taking what was never theirs, while trampling on the stairs.
That once headed toward hope, only now awaiting the grope, unable to cope.

I must run away. I dare not stay.
For the twisting, contorting,
blaming and shaming

Don’t you see me?
Can’t you see?
Why won’t you stay away,
for I am
not
O-K.

If only you could see me,
be free,
with glee,
You would then see,

That my hand trembles when they are near
As I rest in fear
That’s held so dear.

Faking defeat, unable to meet, taking a seat:
What did you do, to bring this upon you?

Trenches
…upon trenches
…upon trenches
With stenches.

Putrid and forbidden.
Hidden.
Built up like scaffolding around me
Unable to think, to be, to feel free

This is not my creation.

This it the outcome of your wrongful elation, citation,
Of assuming that what you have done, removing a sense of childhood fun
Is ok.
But I am here to say…

I had no face - no place - no lace
To wrap around my wounds.

Instead, these wounds placed me into tombs.
A soul of death. A gaping hole,
Leaving behind a dreadful toll.
Of pain - no gain, only a void to remain

Broken

A token

Of your power that left me sour
Rotting from the inside - nobody at my side
But you couldn’t see it - hear it, believe in-it
For you were in your own place.
A shadow without a face.

Living your own shame,
A place of deep blame.
Thrusted upon you
As your parents took on a new
Country,
home,
surroundings
and space
All upon a new place.

Unfamiliar and incredibly alone,
Leaving your mother a statue of stone.

Unable to breathe, to speak, to see -
She wasn’t heard nor seen to be,
A person of worth - of value - of love.
Instead, pushed away, ridiculed and shoved,
Deep into a place of despair
Nothing that made her life fair.

Shock therapy, mental health facilities - a worn out tare
Leaving her unable to see - to hear, your own despair
The stage was set.
Perhaps our best yet.

One of denial and lack of capacity - no tenacity.

It set in motion, a horrific potion,
Leaving us all in a place of trauma,
Filled with intergenerational drama.
And although my heart aches,
With a perpetual stake,
Buried deep within, the trenches of my skin - that keeps its shape deformed
Your silent voice whispering: you were warned…

I can only hold the family story, not written with glory
It is perspective to be reflective.
A mark left.
your mark - their mark
our mark.

One that lives deep within a spark

But now is the time to end the crime,
And grow anew, all in lieu,
Of your story - my story - our story.
Not yet filled with glory.

For we were unable to stand up and say: No more can we go on in this way!

Yet, I choose to walk in a place of calm healing,
Knowing that those who come after me will not be caught stealing -
That in which was taken from us, with a deep sense of fuss.
I now glow in knowing, what needs re-sewing,
Into our new fabric of life - one with less strife.

No pain, disdain,
Only to regain
reclaim and remain,

A healed soul for me - for us, for the clan
This part of our family story has a new plan.

One that says we’re done! No more taking our wholesome sun!

Survivor of CSA
Is not a place I shall stay,

Because after all the work has been done, to recreate our own perfect sun,
The next chapter will be the best yet,
For the sun has not begun to set -
Healing is that powerful a place,
To wrap one’s soul back in lace.

Finding the space, and harmony
To look back at the irony,
Of finally saying:
I see you. I hear you. I believe you.
For that in which is true.

One day soon, this trauma will be appreciated, not rated, hated nor baited.
For this place that once bore sorrow, now longs for a new tomorrow,
Setting us all free.

For it ends with you, and begins with me.

Author Statement

At first, the words came in fragments, scattered like broken glass; sharp, reluctant, difficult to fully grasp. But then, as I continued to create meaning from within the pain, I began to peel back the lawyers – most of which I spent decades trying to move beyond.

Then, in moments of hesitation – questioning if these wounds deserved ink, something shifted. The weight of history pressed against my own grief and all of that that came before mine, as echoes of voices became interwoven through mine, reminding me that silence was the only option for many, but did not have to be mine. Through it, familiar threads began to be reconnected, as a choice was made toward the ending; this fight for anew was not just for myself, but in honor of those who came before me. Those unable to tell their own story.

The act of writing became its own quiet revolution.

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By LAHF
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September 4, 2025

Day&Night

When I feel the need to be alone,
Turn off the lights,
Turn off the phone...
No outside noise will penetrate,
I'll sit here and I'll meditate,
Alone in the dark is quite appealing,
Staring at a moonlit ceiling..
Confusing thoughts and unsure feelings,
Unknown desires begin revealing...
The thoughts they enter one by one,
Soon they are a jumbled mess,
It's been days since I've felt the sun,
So surely I digress,
Into a world of day and night,
As I begin to miss the light,
I open up my eyes and heart
I feel refreshed as I re-start...,

Author Statement

I’ve recently started writing again and thos is my most recent. I was thinking about a friend that is going thru some mental health strugglesrelated to abuse and these words flowed, from my minds perspective of similar struggles and what I wanted to hear at the time.I live my life as a voice for others until they find their way out of their darkness, so I thought this was fitting 💜

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By Tommy L💜
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September 4, 2025

Provocation

Child molester, arrested.
Pleads guilty, gets two years on probation.
Years later, caught again.
Another plea bargain, segregated unit, daily group therapy, TV in cell.
Ten years, out in five.
Third conviction, short sentence, released.
What madness is this?
Five decades of violating women and children.
Ex-wife and victims suicided.
Maybe more?
Perp lives comfortably in the suburbs.

Daughter is the same age as the dead mother now.
She could kill him.
Charged with murder, if she uses a weapon
Manslaughter with diminished responsibility, maybe
Ten years max, out in five; it’s worth it.
Less if she kills him with her bare hands
Less again if she calls an ambulance.
Provocation is her defense.
Failed by the system, the psych report might say.
Driven by intolerable grief and menopausal rage.
A favorable jury might acquit her.
Victims taking matters into their own hands?
Women fighting back?
We must make an example of her.

Stuck between a rock and a hard place.
Silence is a form of compliance.
Truth is, I’m no killer.
Clinging obediently to a broken system
My weakness repulses me.
Stop the torment.
It’s either him or me.
He wins again.
They always do

Author Statement

I decided not to kill him or me, although for a while that seemed to be my only options.

Instead I spent a fortune on therapy and worked with a journalist to ‘out’ him in the local press, hoping that new victims would come forward and press charges. Dangerous, high-risk sex offenders, like my father belong in prison, not in the community.

My article was published last week. How will know if it has any impact? I probably won’t, but doing something is better than doing time or doing nothing.

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By B Meadow
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February 12, 2025

Little Vampire

I am a good girl.
I’ll do whatever he says.
Any attention is better than none.
He knew that, didn't he?

Do I want to hold it while he pisses?
As if asking gives me a choice.

Of course, I’ll say yes.
I’m a good girl; please love me.

Is that how he elicits compliance and silence?
Was I so easy?
Or did he make threats?

Daddy smell, big cock, cut
Flannel nightie, hold your breath, and pretend to sleep.

Soul-murdered and vampire-bitten.
Precocious, they called me;
attention-seeking provocateur, little love sucker.

What monstrous evil,
a baby succubus, eternally damned.
Daddy’s little whore.

Author Statement

I was researching Hypersexuality Disorder and realised that my compulsive sexual behaviours were a direct result from very early incest. Life long psychological damage, is when your brain tells you to be sexual, not because you want to be but because your brain tells you to be. My brain got wired to make connections and attachments through being sexual. It was never a choice. Thankfully menopause rewired my brain again, and viewing the world through a sexual lens seems to have gone. I can now focus on other things.

Given the prevelance of CSA, I ask myself who benefits from a society of hypersexualised women, desperately needing male validation?

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By B Meadow
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February 12, 2025

Still Prey

What’s this?
An email from my father?
He must have died then.
Has the day finally arrived?
Is he...dead?
Cunning 'ham.
STOP! THINK!
Dead men don’t email.

I had given it to him.
Years ago
What else could I do?
It shouldn’t be like this.
I shouldn’t have to.
Do I open it?
What does he want?
I’m hooked, flapping around,
Gasping for breath like a fish flayed.

Can’t you just forgive him before he dies?
We mustn’t speak ill of the dead.
Let it go, just move on.
It's all in the past.
I have that right, at least.
Don’t I?
To know when my rapist daddy dies.

My ancestors suck their teeth.
As I click open the email.

He’s not dead or dying.
He’s found God and weaponises forgiveness.
Him.
The predator.
Me.
His prey

Author Statement

I wrote this in response to my three time convicted pedophile father sending me emails alluding to his imminent death, only to realise that I was yet again being manipulated and toyed with. He wasn’t dying.

I contacted the police to report malicious communication and harassment. An offender isn’t allowed to contact his victim. The police put me at further risk by giving him my new name I had recently changed by deed poll and my location. When your abuser is a family member, especially a parent, the re-traumatisation continues long after the actual abuse stops.

I hope this changes when he finally dies.

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By B Meadow
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February 12, 2025

Tired

I’m tired.
Leave me by the hospital doors,
No looking back.
Avoid my eyes,
Don’t hear my pain.

No more need to measure my worth with your measuring cups.
Give back my love before you go,
Should I try to build it again.

I’m tired,
My Dragon Lady, burning it all down.
Nowhere to anchor
So much haze

She’s so small,
She doesn’t know where to go, what to do.
Wishes she didn’t survive
This life not worth living

She can’t feel with half a heart,
Or navigate your rules.
Don’t take the chance,
She’s not safe for you.

Cover her eyes
Shut her mouth
Plug your ears
She can’t run with numb legs
Her cries won’t stop
Leave it all at the hospital doors

Save yourself
Wash your hands
Take your broken heart.

Author Statement

Navigating adult love relationships as a survivor is tricky when we don’t have the tools or understanding. Our behaviors can be hurtful to our families when we are fiercely protecting our little ones from feeling in unhelpful ways that are no longer serving us. I wrote this during a dark place where I didn’t have the skills to navigate my relationship in a healthy way.

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By S. Kohlman
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November 12, 2024

Poison

Come join me,
In the dark.
I’ll make room for you,
Wake up your body,
Open your heart.
I’ll swallow your pain,
The poison I deserve.
It can’t kill me,
I am already dead.

Author Statement

It can be a struggle to have healthy relationships after CSA. At the time I was feeling responsible for the difficulties and felt hopeless and alone in the darkness.

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By S. Kohlman
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November 12, 2024

A Crack Appeared

A Crack Appears

I am all armoured up

Keeping in check, taking my stance
defenses in place, doing my dance
I am all armoured up

Facing forward, controlling the chills
sensitivities heightened, sharpening my skills
I am all armoured up

As the cries get louder, the bars grow taller
deafening shrills, sharpening my skills
I am all armoured up

Breaking free, merely a dream
on high alert, my insides scream
Covering my tracks, polishing my rackets
the boxes stay shut, covering my casket
I am all armoured up

Never giving up,
today is the day the crack appears

Author Statement

the words just flowed as I felt familiar old feelings emerging
and after the crack appeared, the pain and sorrow from my youth came
flooding out . ON the path to healing this

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By MG
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October 9, 2024

The Gatehouse